Were Growing to west oklahoma
Our Weatherford office provides Christ-centered biblical counseling for couples and individuals throughout Weatherford, Clinton, Elk City, and surrounding communities. We are excited to bring practical, biblical support for marriages and families closer to Western Oklahoma.
We also partner with churches throughout Western Oklahoma to strengthen marriages within their congregations. Through marriage conferences, counseling support, leadership training, and resources for building an effective marriage ministry, we come alongside pastors and church leaders to help create a strong culture of healthy, biblical marriages.
You Do Not Have to Face Marriage Problems Alone
Marriage problems can leave you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure about what to do next.
You may keep having the same argument without reaching a solution. Trust may have been broken. Communication may have stopped. You may love each other but have no idea how to repair what has happened.
You do not have to figure it out alone.
Bridge Builder Marriage Ministry helps couples address the problems beneath the conflict. We combine biblical truth with practical counseling tools that help husbands and wives communicate, rebuild trust, restore connection, resolve conflict, and begin moving forward together.
We will not simply tell you to try harder. We help you understand what is happening in your marriage and identify the changes that can help your relationship become healthy again.
A Husband-and-Wife
Counseling Team
You’ll meet with a husband-and-wife counseling team who understands that two people can experience the same marriage very differently. Having both Steven and Melisa in the room creates space for each spouse to be heard, understood, and challenged without either person feeling outnumbered.
Our goal is not to determine who is right or wrong. We help you identify unhealthy patterns, understand each other more clearly, take responsibility for the changes you can make, and develop practical tools to move your marriage forward. Throughout the process, we bring everything back to biblical truth and God’s design for marriage.
Roughly 70 percent of struggling couples give up on their relationship without ever asking for or seeking professional help
Our Counseling Services
Marriage in Crisis
When a marriage is in crisis, waiting only allows the damage to continue.
We help couples facing conflict, broken trust, affairs, pornography, separation, and communication breakdowns — creating a place to speak honestly and rebuild safety and connection.
Premarital Counseling
A strong marriage begins before the wedding day.
Our six-session process helps engaged couples talk honestly about communication, conflict, finances, family, intimacy, and faith. Available for couples of every age.
Sexual Addiction and Pornography
Sexual addiction and pornography damage trust, intimacy, and emotional safety for more than one person.
We help individuals and couples address destructive patterns, rebuild boundaries and accountability, and begin restoration.
Counseling for Pastors and Ministry Leaders
Ministry leaders often support others while receiving little support themselves.
We provide confidential biblical counseling and practical support to help leaders stay healthy in their marriages, families, and calling.
Individual Biblical Counseling
Available for adults facing marriage problems, family conflict, grief, life transitions, or spiritual concerns. Older teens may be accepted case-by-case.
Communication and Connection
Most couples aren't fighting because they've stopped loving each other — they're fighting because they don't know how to communicate without becoming defensive or shutting down.
We help couples replace these patterns with habits that build understanding, respect, and connection.